Married teacher who had sex with boy, 15, demanded sex ‘6 times a day’ says ex

The ex-boyfriend of a disgraced teacher has claimed she demanded romps six times a day, as she is found guilty of sex with an underage pupil.

The former flame of 35-year-old Kandice Barber said he even felt he had no choice but to walk away from the relationship as he found the “incredibly frisky” offender’s sexual demands “too excessive”.

Today Barber was convicted of having sex with a 15-year-old pupil to whom she sent topless pictures of herself on Snapchat.

Her ex said how his two-year relationship with the now mum-of-three saw them romp up to six times a day, sometimes in unusual places outside, in the car, in the garden or even in woods.

Supply teacher Barber’s high sex drive dominated the relationship, her ex claims, and he was not surprised by some of the sordid details heard in court – but was shocked she had been so “stupid” as to get involved with someone underage.

The ex, who was not named, told the website: “She liked doing it outside, sometimes in the car, the garden or in woods.

“We’d be driving somewhere, and she’d say, ‘pull over, I’m feeling horny.’ It just got too much for me.

“Everyone has got their personal needs and that sort of stuff got her excited but by the end of it I couldn’t be bothered, I’d just had enough. It was too excessive.”

Barber and her ex met on dating website Plenty of Fish.

He detailed how she would perform pole dances for him in her garage, dressed in hot pants and a bra.

He even claimed her friends would join to put on a show for her lover.

Barber, of Wendover, Buckinghamshire, was found guilty of causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity and not guilty of two further counts of the same offences.

She was tried for a second time over allegations she had sex with a pupil in a field while she was working as a school cover supervisor.

She had previously been convicted in September of sending the boy topless pictures of herself on Snapchat between September and October 2018, but was acquitted at the time of causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity while in a position of trust.

In a police interview, the boy told how Barber had sent him multiple illicit images of herself and a video of her masturbating while surrounded by sex toys. He claimed encounters included the married mum performing oral sex in a wooded area.

Barber has claimed she was “too short” to have had doggy-style sex with a schoolboy, as she doesn’t even reach his shoulders. She was also accused of straddling the boy in her 4×4 car and then performing a sex act on him while he lay in a wooded area.

Hearing the details of what Barber was accused of doing, the ex said it reminded him of their own relationship and the sexual behaviour he knew she was into – but he was shocked that she went about it with a minor, expressing his disbelief that she could be so foolish.

The ex said how the relationship had finally collapsed when he found sexual images and video Barber of herself and she admitted sending them to other men.

Some of the pictures showed her in sexy clothing and she confessed to cheating on him with a man she got to know at the gym.

Despite this, the pair parted on good terms, the ex claimed, though he reflected that he was relieved to no longer be in a relationship with Barber.

He added : “I found Kandice a bit freaky when it came to sex and that actually put me off her.”

However, he also described his ex as a great mother, praising her as a wonderful person and one who was typically law-abiding.

And he speculated that it was merely her “incredibly frisky” nature when it came to sex that landed her in trouble.

A court previously heard that Barber had told the boy she would “bring him down with her” if the relationship was discovered.

The teen, who cannot be named for legal reasons, previously said he was “worried and scared” when rumours of their alleged relationship spread around school.

Prosecutor Richard Milne told the jury: “They engaged in sexual intercourse at the time he was 15 years of age and she was a teacher and he was a pupil at the school.

“It makes not a jot of difference that he was a he – the law applies equally to men and women.

“In law he could not give consent to have sexual intercourse.”

Barber’s delivery driver husband Daniel stood by his wife in court, telling jurors their marriage was as strong as ever and he had not been affected by her previous conviction for sending X-rated images.

Barber was released on bail ahead of sentencing on February 15.